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8/27/13

Announcements - August 25, 2013


As part of his Eagle project, Spencer P. asked that the sisters bring peanut butter and canned food next week to contribute to the Contra Costa Food Bank.  Under his leadership, the Scouts collected 937 lbs. of peanut butter last Saturday from 6 area grocery stores. 

Thanks to all those who contributed backpacks for the Primary children in Oakland.  They were happily received. 

The next weekday Relief Society activity will be held on Wednesday, September 11th at 6:30 P.M. in combination with the Young Women of our ward.  The theme is “Ye Are a Temple of God”.   Dinner will be served.  If you have any gently used men’s or women’s clothing appropriate to wear to a job interview, please  bring them that evening. 

Please join us for a Relief Society temple trip on Tuesday, September 10th for the 10:00 A.M. session.  The Oakland Stake will also meet on the following Thursday, September 12th for the 7:00 P.M. session as part of stake conference.  Be working toward identifying a family name to take to the temple in January.

Sunday, September 8th, we will be having presidency visiting teaching interviews here at the church from 1:30 – 6:30.  A Sign-up Genius will be sent for your convenience.  

Lesson Recap - August 25, 2013


Topics for Our Times
by Andrea H.
“Obedience Brings Blessings”
by
Thomas S. Monson

I themed this lesson as “Back to School with the Gospel”.  We have a fresh start  just as our children do at this time of year: a new beginning.  First, let’s take an inventory of where we are.  I’ve written some questions on the board for you to be thinking about. 

What motivates you to be obedient?
Why are you sometimes disobedient?
Since the concept of DISOBEDIENCE is so simple, why is it so hard?

Back to those questions later.

First, let’s make an inventory of where we are; what we need to work on. 

Why is obedience expected of us?   We are all taught that none of us will be perfect while we are yet on this earth.   At the same time, we are expected to be obedient.   Of course, we cannot be perfectly obedient  But, as we have learned many times, the gospel teaches us obedience because Heavenly Father loves us.  He wants to keep us safe and close to Him. 

Time and again I found reference to both the PHYSICAL and  SPIRITUAL blessings of obedience.  So, the commandments are to protect us in both areas.   With these two concepts - imperfection and obedience – we are simply to DO OUR BEST.  Just because we may be imperfect in our obedience does not mean Heavenly Father is going to stop giving us guidance for our own good. 

For example, I constantly encourage my children to eat less sugar and drink more water.   They are old enough now that I know perfectly well that on their own time, when they are not with me, they eat tons of sugar and drink little water.  That doesn’t mean I’m going to stop guiding them on matters of health.  Same for our Father in Heaven.

In President Monson’s talk he spoke of an incident with a childhood friend, Danny, when both were 8 yrs. old.  They were staying at a cabin in the wilderness and wanted to have a campfire that night but needed a clearing.  The June grasses were high, dry and prickly.  They started to pull the grass but soon knew that wouldn’t work.  So, President Monson ran back to the cabin to grab some matches to clear the patch they wanted.  Of course he was forbidden to use matches at the age of 8, as was his friend. 

You know what happened next.  The grass was lit on fire and for some reason the fire did not stop when it had reached the magic circumference desired by the boys.  They had to run for help and all available men and women had to pitch in to douse the flames.   

As President Monson said, “Danny and I learned several difficult lessons that day, not the least of which was the importance of obedience.”

He went on to say, “There are rules and laws to help ensure our physical safely.  Likewise, the Lord has provided guidelines and commandments to help ensure our spiritual safely so that we might successfully navigate this often treacherous mortal existence and return eventually to our Heavenly Father.”

I found a new website: MormonRules.com that groups the commandments into three categories.

   1.    Health:  no smoking, drinking alcohol, eat meat sparingly (things contained in the Word of    Wisdom).
   2.    Morality:  modesty, chastity,  no abortion, fidelity in marriage,
avoiding media that contains violence, profanity or immorality,
being honest, fair etc.
   3.  Spirituality:  baptism, tithing, follow the prophet, pray, read                     
scriptures daily, attend temple, follow the prophet, observe the Sabbath etc,


Returning to our questions, what are some of your thoughts?

One sister recalled her observance of  the commandment to keep the Sabbath day holy has changed over the years.  As a young married woman, she was less strict in observing this commandment, but now, having grown up in the Lord over the years, she would not think of bending it.

A sister observed that her motivation has been to please the Lord because she loves Him.   Now, her wake-up call is to wonder how much more time she has to prove her intentions while she is here on the earth.  She does not want to keep putting off things the Lord has asked her to do and which she has always intended to do, but not yet done.

A sister told of 5 yr. olds being asked to line up on a line.  Some would quickly do it to feel safe and obedient.  Others would question why.   We may not always know the why of a commandment but must learn to exercise our faith to obey. 

One sister related the danger of “Oh, just this once”.  But then it was so much easier to do it twice!

A sister related an incident at Yosemite Falls when some teenagers had climbed over a fence to play in what seemed to be some tranquil ponds and pools.  Although thoroughly warned against such action by several prominent signs, the youths enjoyed sliding from one pool to another.  Suddenly, one boy gained momentum and was lost over the falls to his death. 

In conclusion, I know that when I am obedient I am happier than when I am not.  That’s just the simple truth.  When I take the time to read scriptures, when I take the time to read conference talks, I feel immediate gifts.  Not only the peace I feel inside, but the opportunity
to help people that I may not have seen, had I not been in that better place.  

Announcements - Sunday, August 18, 2013



  • The August Relief Society weekday meeting will be Thursday, August 22. It will be at the Orinda Community Park and we’ll see a play by the Starlight Village Players Outdoor Theatre. The performance will start at 8:00 p.m. but we will meet at 7:45 to enter as a group. The entire family is invited. Feel free to bring a picnic to enjoy before the performance.

  • Relief Society temple session on Tuesday, September 10 at 10:00 am session. There will also be a stake temple session on Thursday, September 12.

  • The Relief Society Presidency is challenging the ward sisters to attend the temple regularly and to prepare family history names to take to the temple. The goal is to have at least one family name temple ready by January.


  • The Elders Quorum will be holding their annual Father/Son campout on September 6-7 at Hawk Ridge in Chabot Park.

Lesson August 18, 2013 - “That We May Become One”

Lesson by Michelle
Teachings of the Presidents of the Church
Lorenzo Snow
Lesson 16
“That We May Become One”


Michelle started her lesson by quoting from Lorenzo Snow, “The voice of the Almighty called us out from the midst of confusion…to form a union and a lovely brotherhood, in which we should love one another as we love ourselves.”

Michelle gave a little background of the early days of the church: Before the Saints were driven from Nauvoo, the leading Brethren of the Church met in the temple. They covenanted that they would “never cease (their) exertions, by all the means and influence within (their) reach, till all the Saints who were obliged to leave Nauvoo should be located at some gathering place of the Saints.” Determined to keep this covenant, President Brigham Young established the Perpetual Emigrating Fund in 1849. Under this program, the Church loaned money to emigrating Saints with the understanding that the people would repay their loans after they arrived in Utah and found employment.

This program continued for another 38 years, well after the Saints from Nauvoo arrived in Utah. This was an inspired program.

President Young called Elder Lorenzo Snow and others to raise funds for this effort. It was difficult for elder Snow to ask the saints for donations—they were poor themselves, having been driven from place to place before settling in the Salt Lake Valley. He wrote in his journal: “In performing the mission of soliciting means from the Saints who, after having been robbed and plundered, had performed a journey of more than one thousand miles, and just located in an unwatered, desolate recess of the great “American Desert”, I found myself inducted into an uphill business. With very few exceptions, the people had very little, or nothing they could possibly spare.” However, everywhere Elder Snow went, people gave all they could. He reported: “The efforts and willingness, everywhere manifested, to eke out a portion of the little—the feeling of liberality and greatness of soul, which everywhere I met in the midst of poverty, the warm-hearted greetings I received even where comparative indigence held court, filled my heart with exceeding great joy. One man insisted that I should take his only cow, saying that the Lord had delivered him, and blessed him in leaving the old country and coming to a land of peace; and in giving his only cow, he felt that he would only do what duty demanded, and what he would expect from others, were the situation reversed.”

Michelle asked what principle was being exercised/required of the Saints? Sacrifice

The Saints were being asked to give to something greater than themselves.

President Kimball said, “Through sacrifice and service one comes to know the Lord.” As we sacrifice our selfish desires, serve our God and others, we become more like Him.”

What is the law of sacrifice? Heavenly Father has given us everything and expects so little in return. We should give more than we receive. We should give of our talents.

Sacrifice is different than service…sacrifice is giving up something that means something to us.

Through sacrifice we have the opportunity to grow closer to those we are sacrificing for. A special bond is created between those we are sacrificing for and vice versa.


The story of Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son Isaac was an example of sacrifice but the ultimate sacrifice was the Atonement.

We would not be where we are today without the Atonement-the ultimate sacrifice. We are here for one purpose, and that can be achieved through the Atonement.

Hugh Nibley said this: “Reconciliation is a very good word for atonement there, since it means literally to be seated again with someone (re-con-silio)—so that atonement is to be reunited with God, just as Paul said: “[The Lord] sat down on the right hand of the Majesty on High.”

“The Greek equivalent is lutrosis, a ransoming. Paul tells the Saints to prepare for the salvation that has been made available by disengaging from this world—“denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world”—so that God “might redeem [lutrosetai] us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people.” (Titus 2:12, 14.)”

Another example of people living the law of sacrifice were the people of Alma. In Mosiah 18: 17, 19-22 it says: “And they were called the church of God, or the church of Christ, from that time forward. And it came to pass that whosoever was baptized by the power and authority of God was added to his church…And he commanded them that they should teach nothing save it were the things which he had taught, and which had been spoken by the mouth of the holy prophets. Yea, even he commanded them that they should preach nothing save it were repentance and faith on the Lord, who had redeemed his people. And he commanded them that there should be no contention one with another, but that they should look forward with one eye, having one faith and one baptism, having their hearts knit together in unity and in love one towards another. And thus he commanded them to preach. And thus they became the children of God.”

We can only have the blessings of one heart through the Atonement of Christ.

President Snow said, “If we have division in our midst; if we be divided either spiritually or temporally, we never can be the people that God designs us to become, nor can we ever become instruments in His hands of making the world believe that the holy Priesthood has been restored, and that we have the everlasting Gospel. In order for us to effect the purposes of God we shall have to do as Jesus did-conform our individual will to the will of God, not only in one thing, but in all things, and to live so that the will of God shall be in us.”

Unity is essential in the Church and in our families.

Michelle said that you can’t be effective in bringing people to Christ if you are divided.

Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing but contention is. People can have differences of opinion, etc.—and can create a better situation unless contention set in.

The key is humility. Conflict turns to contention if there is no humility. The Holy Ghost can help us when there is contention.

Steven R. Covey said to seek first to understand than to be understood.

We should look for harmony in our homes and relationships. False harmony can be dangerous but open communication is necessary.

In order to have unity in our families and church, respect is necessary. Settle conflicts with respect. Real listening is important to conflict resolution.

Michelle said that when she starts to say something about someone, she remembers “Would you say something about someone if that person was in the room?”

We need to follow the Savior’s example.

We become united as we help each other secure peace and happiness. President Snow said, “…We have got to know that it is our business to learn to secure the peace and happiness of those that are around us, and never take a course to trample upon the feelings and rights of our neighbors.”

Do things that are hard to do…it is hard to love people who are different from us. To have a friend, be a friend.

Build others up, don’t tear them down. All of us need support sometimes.

In conclusion, Michelle left us with the following three thoughts:

1-The importance of sacrifice in building the bonds of unity.

2-The Atonement is the ultimate path back to our Savior and can bind us together more than anything else.

3-Make sure to address conflict in your families and the world around you.

Michelle concluded her lesson by quoting from Elder Henry B. Eyring:


“Joy comes when we are blessed with unity. We yearn for that joy which we once had with Him in the life before this one.”

8/26/13

The Moraga Relief Society Presents

“Ye are a Temple of God”

(Corinthians 3:16)

Inviting the Young Women, Relief Society Sisters, Neighbors & Friends
     • WHEN September 11th @ 6:30pm
     • WHERE Cultural Hall 3776 Via Granada, Moraga
     • WHAT Delightful Dinner, Fashionable Fun & Sister Support (In Modesty & Resources)

Childcare available; watch for the sign up genius

Do you have a temple wedding photo, temple décor, modest wedding or formal dress to display?
Look for our Signup Genius to bring some items that will help us have an amusing night!


September Service Opportunity:
Don’t forget to bring your “Wardrobe For Opportunity” gently used items. See fliers for more details.

8/12/13

Announcements - Sunday August 11, 2013


  • Last chance is this week to donate backpacks for the Primary children in the Oakland Stake. Please contact Sue Severson if you have some to give. (No red backpacks, please.)

  • The August Relief Society weekday meeting will be Thursday, August 22. It will be at the Orinda Community Park and we’ll see a play by the Starlight Village Players Outdoor Theatre. The performance will start at 8:00 p.m. but we will meet earlier for a picnic in the park. The entire family is invited. Please see Sue so she can get a count of attendees.

  • Relief Society temple session on Tuesday, September 10 - 10:00 am session

  • The Relief Society Presidency is challenging the ward sisters to attend the temple regularly and to prepare family history names to take to the temple.


  • The Elders Quorum will be holding their annual Father/Son campout on September 6-7.

Lesson Recap - August 11, 2013

Lesson by Rebecca
Teachings of the Presidents of the Church
Lorenzo Snow
Lesson 15
Faithful, Energetic Service in the Kingdom of God


Rebecca began her lesson by reading this quote from Lorenzo Snow: “Knowing our religion to be true we ought to be the most devoted people on the face of the earth to the cause we have embraced.”

President Snow, in describing some of the brethren of his time said this: “…the faith they once possessed seems to be almost exhausted, and they appear to settle down into the quiet satisfaction of a mere nominal membership in the Church.”

Many of us may feel this exhaustion of faith in relation to our Church callings and responsibilities from time to time, but there is a correlation between the callings we have, the service we provide and the strength of our faith.

Rebecca listed on the board some similar words to faithful and energetic:

Faithful            Energetic

Steadfast         Strenuous
Consciences    Energy
Loyal              Active
Binding           Vigor
Firm


These words describe the kind of service we strive to perform in the Church

President Snow said, “Because we have received the fullness of the gospel, we serve as ambassadors of Christ.”

2 Corinthians 5:20 “Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God.”

Just as an ambassador is a representative of a country in a foreign land, we as Christians are Christ’s representatives sent with this message of reconciliation to the world. An ambassador of Christ’s efforts are spent serving the Lord, bringing glory to His name and spreading the Gospel. An ambassador of Christ whose thoughts, words and actions reflect His will. And ambassador’s perspective is service.

President Snow said, “…we assume all the responsibilities of ambassadors of Christ, we become answerable for our individual acts and fore the manner in which we use the talents and ability the Lord has given us.”

By setting good examples, we can be ambassadors of Christ.

“Every calling and responsibility is important in the Lord’s work,” said Lorenzo Snow.

Rebecca asked if anyone had a particularly difficult callings, but that they learned from or grew from. Rebecca told about her calling as Young Women’s President. She had never been in Young Women’s before, was not comfortable as a leader, and this was a particularly hard calling for her. Yet, she learned so much from this calling and has very fond memories and grew to love those girls from those times as Young Women’s President.

Several sisters told stories about callings that they had. Some of the stories that were told were the following:

Joann told about many years ago as a single sister, being called to be the Primary President. She was worried since as a convert, she had never been in Primary before. This calling turned out to be a wonderful blessing. She saw that God was helping and guiding her in many instances during her presidency. She was an instrument in His hands.

Jana talked about the transformation she saw in the lives of many of the converts in the 6th ward when they accepted callings.

All callings serve a purpose.

One sister told a story about Clayton Christensen, a Harvard professor, who was sure that he would be called to be a stake president. When he wasn't called, he was taken aback, but realized that the most important calling is being a disciple of Christ.

Rebecca told about growing up in the Church and how some of her Primary and Young Women’s teachers magnified their callings. They influenced her life and left her with many treasured memories.

Rebecca quoted two quotes from President Snow:

“When we serve God with faith, energy, and cheerfulness, He strengthens us and helps us succeed.”

“I say, let men serve God faithfully and energetically, and be cheerful…There are times when persons are brought into conditions where it would be very difficult if not impossible, to assume a cheerful aspect. But such times are very few.”

Sandy shared some insights to her daughter, Maddie’s, mission to Russia. Sandy said that this a hard mission yet Maddie’s letters are filled with enthusiasm, cheerfulness, and a positive outlook. Maddie said that if you leave it up to the Lord and everything will be OK. Life is like a marathon…endure to the end.

Rebecca closed her lesson with a quote from Richard G. Scott:


“I have learned a truth that has been repeated so frequently in my life that I have come to know it as an absolute law. It defines the way obedience and service relate to the power of God. When we obey the commandments of the Lord and serve His children unselfishly, the natural consequence is power from God—power to do more than we can do by ourselves. Our insights, our talents, our abilities are expanded because we receive strength and power from the Lord.”

8/8/13

Announcements - August 4, 2013


Our August Weekday Activity:
On Thursday, August 22, you are invited to bring family and friends to see an outdoor play at the Orinda Community Park.  The play starts at 8 P.M.   Come early and bring a picnic!   Two short Thurber plays will be presented.  A Sign-up Genius
will be sent out since we need to have a count ahead of time.

Our backpack service project will continue through the month of August.   Please bring new backpacks to contribute.  Rite-Aid is having a special on them right now.  Please avoid the color red (gang color) if you can. 

Remember to look for your “missionary moment” and report it on the card you received last week at our lesson.

Lesson Recap - August 4, 2013


Presidency Lesson
given by
Diane 
“Temple Ordinances for Self and
Blessings for Ancestors”

I know of a mother and a father who had a child who was going on a long journey and would not be home for many years.   Being good parents, they supplied their daughter with everything they thought she would need.   As the girl went on her journey, she fell and lost her memory and couldn’t remember who she was.  Nevertheless, she went on,  eventually got married and had a family.  All this time the parents had not heard from her.  The parents knew important people in all parts of the world and they put out a bulletin asking for any help in finding their daughter.  The important people in those countries sent out emissaries looking for this girl.  She was actually found, but was too busy to listen and so she put them off.   But, as the years went by, this girl began to wonder if she might be missing something in her life.  In the meantime, the parents asked for more emissaries to go out.  A great number responded and were looking everywhere for the girl and her family.  Eventually,  two of those sent found the girl once again.  This time she listened as they told her that if she did certain things, she would be able to find her parents again.   She agreed to some of the things required and came to find out she had a lot of brothers and sisters, but still had not found her parents.  In time, she was told there was a special place she could go, a building in which she would be given information so she could find her parents again.   And so the girl did as she was instructed and did find her parents again.  And they all lived happily together in the joy of being reunited.

I think you know who I am talking about and just what that special building is.
Heavenly Father and Mother have sent us down to earth.  We have forgotten what it was like to be in Their presence.  But, luckily, there are prophets, apostles and missionaries on the earth sent out to gather and bring us home again.  Certainly, you can find your brothers and sisters when you are baptized, but the only way for you to find your eternal parents is to go to the temple, and learn the process by which you may return and live with Them. 

If I could, I would beg you, implore you, pray for you and ask you to go to the temple!  There is so much learning, so much information and so much insight into who we are, why we are here and the importance of making it back again. 

Enoch Bell told you that there were new things happening in the temple and they are absolutely fabulous.  I cannot think of any reason why we should not go to the temple on Tuesday and see all that is new and wonderful.  If you are not quite prepared yet, go to the bishop and he will help you get prepared.   I know that once you go, you will want to go every day.

Temple and family history work are one work divided into two parts.  They are connected together like the ordinances of baptism and confirmation.  If we are baptized and do not receive the Holy Ghost, we do not have the full impact of that ordinance.  If we go to the temple once and never return to do any family history work, we are missing the other half of the blessing of temple attendance.

Many of your deceased ancestors will have received the testimony that the message of the missionaries is true.  When you received that testimony, you could ask for baptism, but those who are in the spirit world cannot.  The ordinances you so cherish are offered only in this world.  Someone in this world must go to the holy temple and accept the covenants on behalf of the person in the spirit world.  That is why we are under obligation to find the names of our ancestors and insure that they are offered by us what they cannot receive there without our help.

Marge Bell then told of instances wherein  she received unexpected help in finding her ancestors.   “Once I “just happened” to walk by a patron in the library and noticed a name, leaping off the paper in front of him.  It was a name I had sought for many years, and there it was, in a probate document  that gave additional information about her.   It was the clue that I needed to continue her research.  Is that a coincidence?   Is it a coincidence that, when I attended a reunion back east, a very distant relative brought some papers to share.  Some of them she could not read, but I could.  On that paper was information I had been needing for quite some time.  No one else at that reunion could benefit from that document.   I believe that our ancestors are out there with their hearts bound to us with hope. “

Think for a minute, pretend you are your great-great-great grandmother.  You were born before there was any kind of written records on a regular basis.  There are no birth or death certificates.
So, wherever you are, you knows that there is one piece of paper, some kind of a document, or a tombstone, or a diary or a family bible or something written on the back of a picture that has your identifying information.  Now you are her, you know there is this piece of evidence out there, but you have to get it to someone who can do your temple work.  Who do you give it to?   Do you give it to someone who, every 15 years, spends 10 minutes on her genealogy?  Do you give it to someone who goes to the temple regularly, but has not even done the work for her own grandparents?  Or do you give to someone who is working hard to find you?   Someone who prays to find your piece of paper?   It is only common sense that the person who gets the miracle is the person who is trying to find somebody.

Apostle Ballard has said, “I want to say to you that it is with greater intensity that the hearts of the fathers and mothers in the spirit world are turned to their children than that our hearts are turned to them.”

I think that it is true and it is too bad that we spend so much time trying to teach the gospel to our neighbors and so little time helping our family received the temple ordinances.  It’s all the same missionary work.   We should turn our hearts toward our ancestors and seek them out.   And frankly, they don’t give you any grief about it!

Sister Hoopes quoted President Kimball: “Thousands of our faithful people seldom go to the temple and of those who do go, most are not working on their own ancestral line.  They are not saving their own dead.  They seem to believe they are fulfilling their responsibility by merely attending the temple occasionally.  This is simply not so.  We must all learn to save our own dead, to properly identify them so that we may then perform the work for them in the temple.  Saints in every temple district must be taught to provide their own names.  The Japanese for the Japanese temple, south American saints for the temples there.”

Elder Scott tells of  a mission in Russia where the youth were challenged to index at least 2000 names and then to qualify at least one of them in their own family for baptism.  Then they were invited on a long journey to the Ukraine temple to do the work.  One young man reported, “I was spending a lot of time playing computer games, but when I started indexing, I didn’t have time.  I thought, ‘Oh no!’, but when this project was over I had lost interest in gaming.  Genealogical work is something we can do here on earth and it will remain in heaven.”

So for anyone who has youth in your home who may be spending too much time doing the frivolous,  maybe we could get them interested in some of the simple steps of indexing or beginning genealogical research. 

President Hinckley said, “I am satisfied that every man or woman who goes to the temple in a spirit of sincerity and faith, leaves the House of the Lord a better man or woman.  There is need for constant improvement in all of our lives.  There is need occasionally to leave the noise and the tumult of the world and step within the walls of the sacred House of God, there to feel His spirit in an environment of holiness and peace.” 

Pres. Hinckley further adds, “The temple is the House of the Lord, the basis for every temple ordinance and covenant.  The heart of the plan of salvation is the atonement of Jesus Christ.  Every activity, every lesson, all we do in the church point to the Lord and His holy house.  All our efforts to proclaim the gospel, perfect the saints and redeem the dead all lead to the temple.  Each holy temple stands as a symbol of our membership in the church, as a sign of our faith in life after death, as a sacred step toward eternal glory for us and our families.” 

 Elder Eyring said,” Their hearts are bound to you, their hope is in your hands.  You will have more than your own strength as you chose to labor to find them.”

President Hunter says, “I have learned that those who engage in family history research and then perform the temple ordinances for those they have found will know the additional joy of receiving both halves of the blessing. “

Sis Hoopes shared her joy at working in the temple.  She said, “It is such a joy, a wonderful, beautiful spot to be.  I invite you again to reexamine your attendance and to resolve to attend the temple whenever you can.  It will be a huge blessing in your life as it is in mine.   I am so thank to Heavenly Father for providing us with this wonderful opportunity to know our way back to Him.”